thread So whilst I’m dealing with my job ending
And no idea how it’s got pan out the young man disappeared. Poof. I spoke to his Dad yesterday and he’s had a relapse. He’s had issues in the past.
I just can’t deal with it after the year I’ve had. I really do love him so very much but I can’t be there for him because it will break me.
Seriously break me. I need stability and calm. Not to be dropped like a hot rock. He’s not in contact at all which is to hide me from his mess but even that hurts too much. Damn damn damn. :(
permalink Oh no :(
That's not good.
permalink Oh honey...
permalink Oh no! Poor you!
It could very well be that he knows you aren't strong enough to help at the moment, so is trying to keep it from you. It's not the ideal reaction, I know, but perhaps it's the best he can do.
Alternatively, he's a dick, and we can all get together and beat him up for you if you like.
Perhaps take the opportunity for quiet, cat cuddles, and steady CV updating - you'll be back on top in no time, your karma reserves are still full to the brim...
permalink He's properly broken
he's had issues before. I just can't help him. We shall see how it goes in time but He'll need time. LOTS of time
permalink ah bugger... what sort of relapse?
there is no shame in not being able to help someone,
permalink He'd not want me to say
but booze.
His Dad has filled me in. He's still completely avoiding my messages because he's seriously in deep.
permalink Oh dear. A tricky situation.
A friend of mine is currently in the same state as a result of PTSD.
Difficult to even know how to help, and far more difficult to actually do so.

permalink I think we all know how difficult
people with PTSD are to deal with...
permalink ah, bugger,
permalink fucksocks.
Sending hugs Naaaarchways.
permalink Fucksocks indeed
And ditto on the hugs
permalink Oh no... huge interhugs!
I sincerely hope things get better quickly.

Much love.
permalink Aw no!
I don't know what else to say :/
permalink Bollocks.
permalink Being of a paranoid mind,
I worry that this may read as though I am calling into question what you wrote.

What I intended to convey was that this is shit.
permalink Bums, not good.
*sympathies for the lovely lady*