thread Oh no! Poor you!
It could very well be that he knows you aren't strong enough to help at the moment, so is trying to keep it from you. It's not the ideal reaction, I know, but perhaps it's the best he can do.
Alternatively, he's a dick, and we can all get together and beat him up for you if you like.
Perhaps take the opportunity for quiet, cat cuddles, and steady CV updating - you'll be back on top in no time, your karma reserves are still full to the brim...
permalink He's properly broken
he's had issues before. I just can't help him. We shall see how it goes in time but He'll need time. LOTS of time